If a relationship involves daily arguing, fighting, especially over minor, insignificant things, is it really worth it?
I'm going to give you another possibility:
A loving, authentic relationship can really be like water; Consistently changing, and nourishing to the mind, body and soul.
I have been in a loving partnership for over two and a half years, and I can tell you, that it certainly does not feel like work. Don't get me wrong - it doesn't mean we never fight... It just means that when we're feeling discomfort, we don't hide - we get straight to the root of the problem and solve it!!! In the heat of those arguments, the blood gets pumping, and it gets really scary. However, we both know that being authentic, and truthful about what's really happening is the only way to keep our relationship healthy and happy.
Please don't buy into the stereotypes that tell you that all relationships are hard work. Choose a partner who helps you grow, who you can help to grow, who you truly enjoy the company of, who can make you laugh, who can make you cry tears of joy... And drink in that nourishing soul food :).
If you can relate, or if you can't - please comment! The only way we can change how the world runs is if we can learn to share our stories :).
