Tuesday 26 February 2013

Capsule #2 : How do you leave someone who's not in love with you?


Q: How do you leave someone who's not in love with you?

A':
From Ryan Coelho (#GameOn): Shift your focus to something else you love and go after it. “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option." ~ Maya Angelou

From Bruno Coelho (#TheRabbitWay): Why do you want to leave? Do you only want to love those who love you? If that's so, what extraordinary thing are you doing? Growth happens beyond our comfort zone! Keep walking on your path and learn from those around you. Remember that you need those who support you and that challenge you!

From Bobby Umar (#PoCchat): Start with Love. You can love someone as a human as a spirit as a person deserving of love. Then you can have a better conversation with honesty, humility and without blame. Lastly, make sure it clear what your action plan is and then do it. Ask for support and help and make sure they are getting it too.

Connection Rule 18: "How you say goodbye is just as important as how you say hello"

Connection Rule 151: "Speak the truth gently and hear the truth calmly"

Connection Rule 166: "Resolving conflict well can be done by compromise, give and take, or just letting go"

Connection Rule 193: "Sometimes you win by letting things go" 


From me: If you're able to love yourself first, unconditionally, then you will see that you need no one else to give you love. Once you're able to love YOU, you can then make room in your life for those who love YOU as much as you do! This allows you to also let go of those who cannot reciprocate the love you have to give.

1 comment:

  1. Start with Love. You can love someone as a human as a spirit as a person deserving of love. Then you can have a better conversation with honesty, humility and without blame. Lastly, make sure it clear what your action plan is and then do it. Ask for support and help and make sure they are getting it too.

    Connection Rule 18: "How you say goodbye is just as important as how you say hello"

    Connection Rule 151: "Speak the truth gently and hear the truth calmly"

    Connection Rule 166: "Resolving conflict well can be done by compromise, give and take, or just letting go"

    Connection Rule 193: "Sometimes you win by letting things go"

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